by March 12, 2010
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So you walk up to a woman and you start talking to her. It could be about anything. It could be about something really simple. Say you are looking at a sushi bar and you say to her, “Man, there’s a lot of different colors here” and she ignores you. What do you do next? A lot of guys run. They play the “oops I spoke and you didn’t respond right away so I’m going to run and hide” game. The guys who run in this situation do so without realizing a lot of things. They do so without realizing that the person they talked to might be shy. In fact, that person might even be shyer than you. You might have taken her off guard, and she wasn’t ready for a conversation. She might have been thinking about something else. You have no idea because you are not inside her head. So let’s go back to the sushi scenario. In that situation, here is how I would handle it. If when I say the observation about the colors the woman looks taken aback, then I would say to her, “What are you getting? What’s good here?” I would give her the opportunity to respond. Think about yourself and how many times you are out somewhere — at the market, a coffee house, a clothing store or wherever — and you are trapped in your own thoughts. You might be thinking about your day, about work, about what you have to do when you get home or even about your underwear. Who knows? Just think about how many times you…
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Years ago when I was rooming in a big house with three other guys, I used to have this short motivational list, handed to me by a friend, taped to my closet door. THE ONLY ADVICE YOU’LL EVER NEED Chicks dig power. Don’t date. Never pay. Play by your own rules. He who hesitates masturbates. Better to pursue lots of women until you find one willing to go all the way right away than to waste a month on a tease. Women want to be seduced. Hot sexy babes want to fuck someone… why not you? This advice hasn’t stopped working for me. *** Readers occasionally ask me what I was like before I learned game. Before Game. BG. Heh. I used to think there was a time Before Game in my life, but upon further reflection, maybe there never was. I’ll give you an example of what I mean. I was sifting through some mementos during a spring cleaning when I came across a handwritten note I had given to a girl back in the day before I ever knew what a neg was, or anything much about female nature at all. I’ve always believed there was something special… uncorrupted… about girls I banged before the advent of game in my life. As if winning them over without the use of game and the crimson arts placed them on a higher pedestal than women who would later fall under my more calculated spell. I could look back fondly on those early years bangs and imagine I was “being myself” with those girls, and that the girls loved me for me. So when I found the …
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