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Deconstructing A Communication Breakdown

by March 9, 2010

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I know I live in southern California, but Sonja hates feeling chilly so we have radiant heat going in the house. The problem with the radiant heat in our place is that it cranks up really high and starts cooking us like we’re living in a sauna. So the guy who fixes the heat came by the other day and finally looked at the thermostat. He said that the problem is that the thermostat is not communicating with the heat, i.e., that there is a communication breakdown between the two. It’s interesting. If you really look at the way life is, it is a series of communication breakdowns. Here you are just standing there wanting to approach a woman. Even though you do everything right — you observe, and you walk over and say something great — she may not respond to you the way that you imagine. She doesn’t respond the way you want her to respond, so there then is a communication breakdown and you don’t know what to do next. Your brain is like a computer, and it starts firing off all sorts of things, but really it’s just a communication breakdown. Communication breakdowns happen between people and things every single day. It could happen during the first approach, it could happen between two people in a relationship, and it could even happen with the water heater not communicating with the thermostat. When it comes to communicating with people, though, you need to listen in order to avoid communication breakdowns. You need to …

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Parent Teacher Romance

by March 9, 2010

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My interracial dating has taken a wild turn in the last couple weeks. Not because of my experiences with SR39, it’s because of the amount of women that are literally falling out the sky. There are several dating options that is now making my life interesting. I’ve talked about one of my ex’s, KT35. She’s

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Pick up and hook up on Spring Break

by March 9, 2010

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It’s that time of year again. Check out this classic article from Braddock on picking up and hooking up on Spring Break – from the Cancun master himself ! Spring Break Pick Up – Basic Introduction – By Braddock Before you go At your hotel Pre-parties At the club: Approaching At the club: Taking it to the next level Taking her home Setting the right frames If you’ve ever seen Spring Break or Ibiza or any big festival on TV, you know how filled with beautiful women they are. Combine music, sand, sex, and alcohol, and it should be easy. So why do so many guys come home frustrated? Most of the time, it’s because they’re making things MUCH harder for themselves than they need to be. Like any situation involving women and dating, you can make it hard or you can make it easy. I’m going to show you how to make it easy. [Note: while this article contains tons of great information that anyone can use on the beaches right away, you'll get the most out of it once you've read the "bible" of dating science, Magic Bullets. This book is the basis for everything we at Love Systems teach and do ourselves. Check out the book here , where you can also download some sample chapters to get you started.] PART 1 – Before you go… Your choice of hotel MATTERS. A lot. There are usually 1 or 2 hotels that are where all the action is and where most of the hot girls will be…

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Spot The Alpha: Red Carpet Edition

by March 8, 2010

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Before we begin, let me get one objection out of the way. I hate to break it to you guys reading (no I don’t) but your girlfriends and wives would cheat with any one of these celebrities I’m showcasing for this edition of spot the alpha, if the opportunity was there. Fame is the ultimate male aphrodisiac. Fame is more powerful than vast wealth, looks, or charm. On the numbers alone, it might even be more powerful than master game. While tight game can lock down a woman like no other male attractiveness trait, fame can make a million ginas tingle at once. The resulting oscillation can dampen tsunamis. So compared to the average dude, all these male celebrities are alpha. But how do they stack up to their peers? That’s where it gets interesting. Because even at the top of the male status heap, one dick swings bigger than the rest. Who is the alpha wolf among wolves? The stride is purposeful, but the beard is weak. Roosh’s beard laughs at you. Verdict: Neoalpha. She looks really happy submitting to his alphaness. It’s not just the hotness and quantity of women that mark a man as an alpha male ; it’s also the strength of women’s attraction for him. Verdict: Jail time buffed his alpha cred. Nice gang sign, Romeo. Verdict: Douchebag. This guy obviously read my post on how to stand like an alpha , but, being gay, he overshot the mark. Verdict: BHEYta! Note how Matthew Broderick has his right hand pressed against …

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5 Underrated Types Of Girls

by March 8, 2010

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I’m super disheartened today by the guys who have posted comments on the last post about Women to avoid saying that those women are 95% of all women. Obviously the guys doing this commentating don’t have female friends or women in their lives. Most likely because of their misogynistic and angry views towards Women. Very sad… Anywho, here’s some Awesome types of girls I’ve dated and where you can find them. 1. Artists. Artists are my favorite type of girl. This girl is creative, open minded, interesting, smart, and fun. I personally prefer painters, and other kinds of visual artists. An added benefit if you like Tattoos like me, is they can help you with designs. 2 of my last 3 tatts are girl inspired… You can meet artists at painting and drawing classes (Community college, Learning Annex, or Private studios) Art exhibits, Museums on weekends, or any kind of artistic festival or Art walk. 2. Fitness Models/Pilates/Yoga Instructors. Fitness models are not female bodybuilders, and they tend to look more like strippers than workout freaks. Their bodies are ridiculous, but so are their diets and eating habits so be ware. I learned that when I invited a girl two days off a show for drinks and she showed up Orange and chewed Ice. You can meet these girls at fitness expos, competitions or parties after these competitions. If you live in a smaller town look for local fitness shows. I’ve dated a ton of Yoga/Pilates instructors, you usually meet those girls at coffee shops near yoga classes after the classes are over. Get a schedule and check up times if nee be. 3. Graduate Students. These girls are like the mature version of the college student. They’re ambitious, driven, smart and interested…

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A short drill to blow Preconceiveds

by March 8, 2010

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This post contains a short drill to destroy Preconceiveds (a coined word, short for preconceived thoughts/ideas/notions). It is based on the newest stuff that will be discussed in Force21 . But, first I want to reply to a few comments from the last post… A comment from “Hammer” of hammer86blog.com on my post “Getting Women to Approach You”: Interesting stuff man. What you are talking about here is actually exactly what Cory Skyy has been talking about for years. Of course, he can’t break things down the way that you can, and his stuff is less scientific and more touchy feely, thus not conducive to learning, but either way, it’s definitely interesting to see somewhat of a convergence between PUA and naturals. All of the best guys in the community essentially admit that naturals are pretty much across the board better than all PUAs, but it seems like you’re approaching being able to teach what naturals do. Thanks for the props. I do have to disagree with the thing about naturals. Every one of them I’ve seen has disappointed me. The few I befriended and tried to learn from were better than the average PUA but have severe weak spots. They are also less consistent. Take them out of their element and they are usually pretty bad. On the same post, Matt said: If you are a good looking guy or “stand out” then they will approach you. If you are not then what? This is all nice and good but what if you go thru those steps and she does not …

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Edge – The Zen of Cooking and Seduction

by March 8, 2010

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Ever since the beginning of 2010, I have been dedicated to losing the fat that I semi-intentionally gained in my efforts to master “bulking up”. As soon as I said good-bye to fast food, I very quickly realized that I needed to figure out how to cook. Quite frankly, unseasoned chicken and broccoli gets pretty boring, pretty fast. So when I started to learn to cook, I learned that black pepper and garlic powder can really punch up a variety of foods I already was eating. So I was throwing garlic powder and black pepper on everything . And you know what? It worked… my food tasted better than it used to and I was able to get the result I wanted without a lot of extra effort or time invested. But after a short while, everything I ate tasted like some variation of pepper and garlic. I had one cooking strategy that worked, but it was only going to take me so far. And there were some foods that could be made much better with different seasonings that I hadn’t experimented with. On the other hand, there were hundreds of options out there that I could try and frankly, I didn’t have the time or the patience to figure them all out. Moreover, I would flip out if I worked hard to make something only to end up destroying it by seasoning it wrong or putting on too much seasoning. So I did the most intelligent thing I could think of: I turned to the internet. And once I was on the internet, I did the second most intelligent thing I could think of: I sought out people who were already great at…

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The Sarge Brought Back To Life!

by March 5, 2010

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – b ullying, b egging, b uying, B S, and b ooze. The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out: ================================================ Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out! I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that. ================================================ It’s all about calibration . Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman , read the situation , and know yourself . On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently. A word of caution : SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in…

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RHWOC: Queen Bees and WannaBees Applied Part 4 of 4: Tamra Barney

by March 4, 2010

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I have a love/hate relationship with Tamra Barney. For the most part she annoys the hell out of me, but every now and then she says some real shit… Her feud with Gretchen was what initially got me hooked on the show. As I talked about in the last post about Gretchen, Tamra was alledgedly called by a guy named Jay who is a photographer in the OC late at night. He told Tamra that he was dating Gretchen while she was supposedly dating or married to Jeff… Then Jeff left Gretchen 2.5 million dollars (according to court papers) and I think Tamra was mad because she still had to sleep with the guy she was gold digging, Simon. Tamra has a horrible relationship with her husband Simon. Leading to my favorite scene of the entire season where Jim and Alexis and Simon and Tamra are out to dinner. During the same scene, Simon talks about how he’s always right, has had to say ” I told you so.” and Tamra talks about how she obeys him… But that’s a whole nother blog post in and of itself… Tamra is Vicki’s Sidekick, this is a great position within the …

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I Dare ya

by March 3, 2010

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Ok, so it looks like we are going to run this one for 1 more wee k and see where it goes from there. I have gotten emails back from Stylelife members about how good it is and also guys that have had issues with it. I gotta ask, how is your frame while delivering this? This is more of a game for when you are in set and have comfort built…. with the entire set. I remember when I first started, I met a guy that had never gone out sarging. I asked him why he was getting into the community. While he answered, we were walking down the street and while he was mid-sentence, we ran right into a bachelorette party. I opened, held a strong frame, and pulled the whole set to a near by bar that I knew was amazing. We ended up doing a routine like this with the whole set. It was amazing. We went from meeting the girls to pulling them to a vodka bar, to getting them to do fun and interesting things. Now, I challenge you guys. Can you do this? I want the Truth and the Dares …. Hell, make up a few of your own and post your results…. One more week. KEEP FRAMING AND GAMING P.S. I would like to send a shout out to a brother in the field. Prodigy …. Happy 21st Birthday. Hope it is the best………..

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Facebook Opener (Day, Bar, Social Game)

by March 2, 2010

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Ok so I have been pressured at many bootcamps to get my ass on here and share some of the stuff we are using infield. Now I get AA on these forums as I know how long it takes me to right stuff. So am going to practise with short and sweet little tit bits throughout February (my birthday month;-) that you can begin using as they have been field tested to the hilt. this opener (1 of 3 to do with Facebook) actually was field tested in Starbucks, West Hollywood when I was out visiting Mystery and the gang. Now guys if like me you are from the Uk and not used to seeing super hot women, man this starbucks had more hotties than I see in a month in Nottingham, UK lol. But this Starbucks is special as it was right over the road from Vivid Porn Studios and it just seemed to be a haven for hotties. So there is me beavering a way on my laptop, while being constantly distracted (God I was like a dog with 2 dicks and a street full of lamp posts!)… So anyway I was working on some new Day Game openers and stuff I could use in normal social settings and kept having a browse at my facebook, pondering on whether or not to remove my then recently ex’d girlfriend – well we had split up after 9 months (this was during the end of my 1st …

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Storytelling AKA Fibbing

by March 1, 2010

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In the course of your conversation with a woman you want to tell a story about yourself that flips those female attraction switches which Mystery so incisively described as “pre-selection by women, leader of men, and protector of loved ones”. But, honestly, how many men have those kinds of rip roaring yarns to tell which powerfully hit all those girl buttons? If you’re like most men, you likely have not led the life of an international man of mystery. And of those men who *do* have stories like that to tell, how many of them are able to relay their stories for maximum impact? I’ve known quite a few Marines who spent time overseas in the middle of some crazy shit inexplicably tell their tales in such a way as to render them boring and ineffectual. You have to learn to sell yourself. Sometimes even top notch goods sit moldy on the shelves for lack of marketing and salesmanship. This is where having a story (or a routine, in old school parlance) memorized and ready for deployment is critical to a man’s success bedding women. There is nothing inherently beta or creepy about memorizing stories from your life to use over and over with different women. Alpha males, indeed, are the biggest violators of the supposed sanctity of extemporaneous jiving. If you’ve ever hung out at upper …

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RHWOC: Queen Bees and WannaBees Applied Part 2 of 4: Alexis Bellino

by March 1, 2010

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Getting some good feedback on this stuff here. I’m glad you guys are enjoying some real Female Psychology, but I’ve been getting a few comments about how reading this makes you hate women… Seriously guys? First of all the behavior we’re talking about is NOT all women! It’s a specific subset of women that happen to be unusually attractive(except in Vicki’s case) and thus through the heirarchies involved in adolescent girl living act a certain way. The reason this stuff is interesting is that most community guys are obsessed with “club girls.” Some even demean them as people by calling them “club skanks.” yet still try to hook up with them. Personally, I’ve been there and done that. I prefer a smarter more career/school focused girl, which is why I meet most of the girls I date long term during the day time. Anywho, don’t apply this sort of material to all women, instead use it as a guide to decipher why a certain type of girl ( Queen Bee, Sidekick, Target) is acting the way she is. Allright on to the next RHWOC; Alexis Bellino ( If that is her real name). Alexis joined the cast this year during the 5th season, in fact she was the first Real Housewife that has gotten introduced since I started to watch the show regularly. Alexis has been called “Jesus Barbie” by the writer of the Pretty On The Outside RHWOC blog which is hysterical and can be found HERE Alexis…

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How To Deal With An Ass

by February 28, 2010

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Here is an interesting topic. How do you deal with someone who is just an ass? How do you deal with a person like that? You know about whom I am talking. Take this example. You are playing basketball with a bunch of people, and there is always that one guy who never got over losing the high school championship. He is being overly competitive, trash talking nonstop and arguing over every call. Every time you go up to make a shot, he fouls you but never says anything (although he taunts you afterwards). Every time he goes up for a shot, however, he cries “foul!” even if you barely brushed him. He will start screaming at the ref, “Did you see that?! Didn’t you see him foul me?!” Everybody allows this guy to act this way. They will just make light of it by saying something like, “That’s just Jim. Just get drunk with him later and he’ll be fine.” How do you deal with this type of person, especially if you are not that guy who wants to wait for booze to bring out his “good personality?” How do you deal with this kind of person when they are in the midst of their bad behavior? When you…

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Other Men Are NOT Competition

by February 28, 2010

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I’m cheating a slight bit and sharing something I’ve already shared to our main list. If you’ve missed newsletters like this one or not on our list yet, you can subscribe at: http://www.artofthepickup.com/aotptt/ You get in your way more than other men get in your way. You might be thinking, “Jay, I love your newsletters but now I know you’re on crack! Half the people in this world are men and I’m competing with them every day I leave my house and every time I try to meet and date a new woman.” I’m going to keep things short & sweet today and leave you with something major to think about. Other men are NOT competition and almost never get in your way with any woman you want. You are far far more likely to get in your own way. How? By: 1. Not approaching when an opportunity to meet a new woman presents itself. You might hesitate, doubt yourself, or simply chicken out. Where is the alleged “other guy” to stop you or hold you back? He’s not there. 2. By not being prepared. How many times have you not bothered to observe the mechanics of the world around you? You have the opportunity every day in life to observe, learn, and practice. You are learning from this newsletter but are you practicing? Where are the “other men” to blindfold you, lock you in your house, and glue your feet to the ground? In your imagination, that’s where. 3. By not maximizing your opportunities. Are you taking advantage of opportunities that appear, or making new opportunities regularly? Are you out being social? Taking interesting classes in your extra…

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Girl Game – Girls Get a Strategy to Meet Mr. Right

by February 28, 2010

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Hey All, Any idea how girls feel about approaching guys? A journalist from SF Weekly covered my recent sold-out Day Game workshop in San Francisco, and proposed we turn the tables and look for girls who would be interested in some dating coaching. Starlight posted this blog about what we found out. Jeremy Soul Girl Game So, last weekend Soul, Bonsai and I ran a sold-out Day Game workshop in San Francisco. SF Weekly sent out a camera crew and female reporter to cover the event, which was fun in the sense that sometimes girls would see the photographer’s lens poking out of the bushes while we were in set in Union Square! Anyhow, after the event ended, over a few drinks, the reporter threw out the idea: “Hey, how about we put up a Twitter alert for 6 girls looking to improve their love lives with a few professional dating coaches?” Hmm…coach girls on how to approach & open guys? Sounds fun. A whole new storyline for SF Weekly to play with. And the chance to put a lot of brainstorming with Soul and Whim to work. So we showed up in the Marina at 8p to meet the 6 lucky ladies. There was a tall blond personal trainer looking to meet potential mates outside of her profession, a twentysomething Asian advertising exec that just loathed being approached by guys…but yearned to meet new people…

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