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My Christmas Present to YOU…

by adminDecember 23, 2009

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I want to wish you and your family the happiest of holidays! To celebrate the holidays, I want to give you an audio interview I did with Brad P … Also, I’ll add 9 ebooks about pickup and fitness as “stocking stuffers” (you would need size 20 feet like Shaq to have room for all these *goodies* )… After the holidays, I’m DONE *giving* away all these products to everyone who signs up for my newsletter… I mean, there’s some *marketers* out there who are charging hundreds of dollars for products with this same material … In fact, there’s even some *subscription* sites that charge up to $40 per month just to get access to the information I give away for FREE… Don’t get me wrong, I’m still going to send out newsletters with the most current tips and happenings in the seduction community… But I simply CANNOT keep GIVING all these ebooks and audio programs away… All this free stuff is chewing up my monthly bandwidth! But I’m going to wait until January 4th to worry about all that… Until then, it’s a free-for-all just by signing up for my newsletter! In fact, I’m ADDING ANOTHER free audio interview to those who sing up from now until then… this interview is with Sinn … So sign up RIGHT NOW because this offer ends January 4…

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Merry Christmas 2009

by December 23, 2009

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Merry Christmas guys! I think it’s an appropriate time to take to be thankful for what we have and look forward to the future. I know there is a negative stigma that surrounds websites that give dating advice such as these, but ultimately what I hope to achieve is to help each and every one of you find love in your life. I think the criticism comes from the fact that people falsely believe that ’seduction’ sites such as these give advice that will miraculously trick women into liking you. That couldn’t be further from the truth! As I’m sure most of you have already noticed, the founding principles of Art of Seduction are about improving yourself and presenting a genuine version of yourself to the world . Sure there are better ways to present yourself, little tricks to overcome approach anxiety and guidelines that you should take to have a great date (and we’ll teach that), but it’s the real you that makes the difference. That’s why I encourage everyone to grow, become the best person you can and you’ll attract an equally beautiful person into your life. In the end, that’s really what it’s all about and it’s times like Christmas when you’ll appreciate it the most. Sincerely, – Chris Calo Tags: christmas

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Did You Buy This For Yourself Yet?

by adminDecember 23, 2009

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Just a couple of days until Christmas. Unbelievable. What an amazing 2009 it has been. Have all of you bought yourself a gift yet? Are you thinking right now, “David, are you crazy? Buy myself a gift? I have to buy my cousins, uncle, mom, dad, brothers and sisters a gift.” No, you need to get yourself a gift – and it’s the most important time of the year to do it. How do you spoil yourself at Christmas? What are you going to do for yourself? I’m going to tell you. You just have to listen to today’s podcast to find out. This podcast is going to change the way you think about Christmas forever. Click here to listen now: Share this on del.icio.us Digg this! Share this on Reddit Stumble upon something good? Share it on StumbleUpon Post this to MySpace Share this on Facebook Tweet This! Subscribe to the comments for this post?

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Serendipitous – Getting into State Part 2

by adminDecember 23, 2009

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Opening Other People – Introvert Mode You should be aware of which mode the person is in because it helps you gauge the potential difficulty of opening the set. For instance, if you want to open a girl walking down the street but she’s in Introvert Mode, your opening line or immediate follow up statement (your transition) has to be powerful enough to hook her into conversation with you. If it isn’t, she’ll stay in Introvert Mode. Do take into account the fact that there will always be other things that factor into whether you’ll be able to hook her or not, such as; is she on the phone, is she late; those kind of things. If you succeed you bring her into Extrovert Mode and you’ll be able to communicate with her easily. Opening Other People – Extrovert Mode When people are out being social, they are in extrovert mode. They are generally easier to open for the simple fact that they are already out of Introvert Mode. You still have to hook the set with interesting discussion though, or you are perceived as not being high value. Opening Other People – Group Introvert Mode If people are talking to each to her, pretty much the same rules apply, except the difficulty of opening and hooking is a little less. Why only a little? Because a group as a whole can be in Group Introvert Mode, where the only thing they are aware of are their own thoughts and the thoughts being communicated to the rest of the group. There may be one person in the group who has either assumed the duty of monitoring the outside goings on by their disinterest in the conversation …

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How To Pull Off The ULTIMATE First Date!

by adminDecember 23, 2009

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Hey guys. It’s your wingman Dean Cortez. Check out this quick article on pulling off a great first date. We begin with a letter from a reader… After reading your book Mack Tactics I decided to finally break up with my (now ex) girlfriend. She’d been totally controlling and manipulating me for the past four years. Anyway, I’m back on the dating scene now and feeling like a true Mack. I met a really hot girl at a work function and asked her out. But I’ll admit I’m rusty with the “first date” stuff, I’ve been off the scene for a long time. Any tips for closing this deal? Eric, New York City > > > DEAN CORTEZ RESPONDS> > > In order to pull off the ultimate first date, create deep attraction, and hopefully steer things back to your place, you’re going to have to use the methods and conversation strategies that we explain in the Mack Tactics book. But for starters, here are some fundamental “first date” tips to always remember: * Keep your spending to a minimum. With first dates, never try to impress her by shelling out the bucks. This puts you in the wrong position. Maintain the attitude that this is her chance to sell herself to YOU, not the other way around. Meet her for coffee (not at a Starbucks — find a cool, out-of-the-way, comfortable coffee shop for dates). Or, …

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How To Pull Off The ULTIMATE First Date!

by adminDecember 23, 2009

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Hey guys. It’s your wingman Dean Cortez. Check out this quick article on pulling off a great first date. We begin with a letter from a reader… After reading your book Mack Tactics I decided to finally break up with my (now ex) girlfriend. She’d been totally controlling and manipulating me for the past four years. Anyway, I’m back on the dating scene now and feeling like a true Mack. I met a really hot girl at a work function and asked her out. But I’ll admit I’m rusty with the “first date” stuff, I’ve been off the scene for a long time. Any tips for closing this deal? Eric, New York City > > > DEAN CORTEZ RESPONDS> > > In order to pull off the ultimate first date, create deep attraction, and hopefully steer things back to your place, you’re going to have to use the methods and conversation strategies that we explain in the Mack Tactics book. But for starters, here are some fundamental “first date” tips to always remember: * Keep your spending to a minimum. With first dates, never try to impress her by shelling out the bucks. This puts you in the wrong position. Maintain the attitude that this is her chance to sell herself to YOU, not the other way around. Meet her for coffee (not at a Starbucks — find a cool, out-of-the-way, comfortable coffee shop for dates). Or, meet her for drinks. Skip the places that everyone knows, and find “date locations” that will show her you’re an original type of guy who knows the cool “off the radar” spots. BONUS TIP: Make her feel extra special by saying to her, “This is one of my favorite places. I think of it as my…

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How to Flirt With Women: The Art of Push/Pull:

by December 23, 2009

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In my years of being a Dating Coach it’s become apparent that the most important and easiest way to flirt with women is to use what is called Push/Pull. Basic Definition: “Saying something nice and dove tailing it with something mean or saying something mean and dove tailing it with something nice.” On a more advanced level flirting using push/pull is the art of using both your physical touch/facial expressions and your words in unison. This could mean that you tease her about something or playfully call her out on something, yet while doing so you are smiling, you pull her in and hug her just before she gets mad to show her you are kidding. The guys I know who are the best with women when it comes to flirting, building attraction in the first encounter, building attraction in social circle settings, or maintaining a fun relationship are masters of push/pull. To truly master push/pull you must learn to calibrate to the woman. Each woman has her own default push/pull blueprint. Some girls blueprint is that they respond best when the ratio is 5 pushes to every 1 pull. With these type of women, they will quickly get bored with a guy who tries to compliment “pull” to often. Even with these women, the pull must appear at some point or she will give up and lose interest assuming you are just a jerk. Other girls default blueprint …

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Seven Steps to Success at Parties

by December 22, 2009

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It’s that time of year. Office parties. Holiday parties. New Years. All kindsa parties. Parties can be one of the best places to meet people, particularly cute women. But for guys with anxiety, it’s not always the easiest thing in the world to go out and party. Here are some tips to make things better for you. 1. Don’t underestimate the power of simply showing up. Woody Allen once said, “80 percent of success is just showing up.” Always say yes to a party invitation, unless there’s a really good reason why you shouldn’t go. Chances are, that feeling that you don’t want to go is simply your anxiety nudging you to go home and do something anti-social rather than be among other people. The most important part of success is simply getting yourself there. 2. Stick Around. There’s a tendency to want to leave a party if things aren’t “happening.” But part of this, as I’ve talked about before , is getting comfortable being uncomfortable. Amazing things can happen if you just chill out and stay around even if it’s not super fun in the moment. Yes it’s awkward, but don’t worry, it’s awkward for everyone. That’s why people get drunk. Sometimes weathering the boring moments of the party reaps amazing benefits. 3. It’s okay to hang back. Don’t feel like you constantly need to be doing “something” all the time. It’s okay to hang out and sip your drink, even if you aren’t in a conversation with someone. Contributing every once in a while is okay. Don’t take …

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“She Screams (But Not With Delight) When Things Go Further…”

by December 22, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans, The other day here on my blog, I delved into what to do when the woman you are trying to “close the deal” with throws ice water on your Sarging efforts by dropping the “F-bomb” as in “let’s be friends.” This is one of the timeless challenges for many smart guys like you who claim your skills, results, and future in succeeding with the women you desire. It struck a nerve with several people who wrote to me. Here’s an interesting question that was posed to me – what do you do when she is willing to “only go so far” but gives a (seemingly) irrational response when you try to take things further? A student of mine asked: ===================================== I have a problem with this woman who lives in my residence. She is sexy like a pornstar. We have made out numerous times, and also watched movies together and cuddled each other on the bed. However, she is arrogant, and when I reach lower down on her body, she screams out. She is scatter-brained most of the time and does not focus attention on some of the Speed Seduction patterns that I employ on her. Not only that, but she does not mind flirting with all the other guys in…

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Why we kiss

by December 22, 2009

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UPDATE: Get Me More, Now – Time’s Running Out!

by December 21, 2009

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans, Just a quick reminder about the “GET ME MORE, NOW” bonus offer for the Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles on January 22 – 24, 2010. Sign up for the three-day Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar today (or before December 23) and I will throw in not one … not two … but THREE special “Get Me More, Now” bonuses ). Here’s the best part – you don’t actually have to pay us by December 23. Just send us an e-mail to orders@seduction.com by the 23rd letting us know you are attending…and then as long as you pay your registration fee in full by January 10, 2010 , you will receive the bonuses. ============================================================= “GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #1: Even More Ongoing Girl-Getting Coaching For FREE! Everyone who registers for the January 2010 seminar receives one (1) FREE month in my Speed Seduction® Coaching Program . This means even more personalized, world-class instruction, troubleshooting, mentoring and teaching from me! Your FREE month begins immediately after the end of the January 2010 Seminar. If you are already a Coaching Program member as of January 24, we will extend your membership a month before your next due date so you still get your free month. (”Get Me More, Now” Bonus Value: $97.00) ============================================================= “GET ME MORE, NOW” BONUS #2: Two FREE E-Books – The Gift That Gets You Started Even Before …

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My Comments On Dancefloor Game

by December 21, 2009

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There is a huge hole in the world of “game” that is grossly overlooked. I’ve been doing a little reading, and I believe that some of you have been told that the dancefloor is a trap for any guy looking to pick-up or hook-up with a woman. I forget who said that, but what I can tell you based on experience, is that they are wrong. Dancefloor game is quite possibly the best form of game out there. When I first started “gaming”, I relied mainly on two things: charisma and dancing. I didn’t rely on my verbal game, as it wasn’t up to par at the time. However, I’ll let you in on an interesting fact about me: when I used dancing as my main tool to attract women, I made-out and took home far more women than I do now. In fact, in a lot of those instances, it was the women who initiated the make-out, and I had to do very little to get a solid phone number or take them home. To give you an idea, when I used dancing as my main tool to attract women, I took home women about three times as much as I do now (I use mostly verbal game now). Why? Because…

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Sexual Maturity

by December 21, 2009

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Generally happy with the reactions to my last post relating the story in which I passed up a sexual opportunity. One commenter asked if I would describe my own process and how my views towards sex have evolved as I’ve become better with women. I suppose this will be kind of a companion-post to My Personal PUA Journey that I posted months ago. 1. Sex, the Exhalted – Pre PUA community days, generally felt the same way about sex that probably most men who never get laid do: namely, that it’s a huge deal, and something that you earn from women through respect and trust. Not rare, but not exactly common either. Accompanied with this perception of sex, I also had a strange belief that women wouldn’t sleep with a guy who wasn’t their boyfriend. Don’t ask me where the hell I got this notion, but it actually sabotaged a number of my early lays as I was terrified hooking up with a girl would lead to weeks and months of endless phone calls. 2. Kid in a Candy Store – As I got good enough to actually get laid, it took on a different flavor. On the one hand, I was getting laid regularly, but on the other, it was this completely new and exciting lifestyle. “Holy shit, I banged TWO girls this week!” Or…

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Preparation vs. Readiness

by December 21, 2009

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I once visited some friends in San Francisco who had copied our idea of renting an extravagant house and splitting the cost between the pickup artists who lived there. We called ours Project Hollywood, they called theirs Project San Francisco. We sat around their living room, bonding over stories of the perks and follies of communal living. Chores were a sore subject. Our house was always messy– so messy that maids usually quit after cleaning up after us once. Their house was clean. How did they do it? “Our goal is to keep our place at a nine out of ten in cleanliness.” Nine out of ten was good enough. Who else admits, even for something small like keeping their house clean, that their goal isn’t perfection? Crossfit, a popular (and amazing) fitness program, does. Coach Glassman, the founder of Crossfit, once said this, comparing Crossfit to other workout programs: “We do what you do almost as well as you, you can’t do our stuff at all, and we do what neither of us do better than you can.” A top Crossfit athlete won’t win a marathon. The guy who has trained his whole life for marathon running will win it. Crossfit …

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Women Are Entitled To Their Mid-Life Crisis

by December 20, 2009

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We had a great conversation the other night while out to dinner with an old friend of mine. It was a conversation that made me realize something interesting. Men have mid-life crises all the time. They go and stuff their big bellies into little tiny sports cars that make them look like they are sardines. They go out and get a young version of their already hot wife because they want an even younger version. They may even hire a hot secretary during their mid-life crisis to help them to feel sexy again. Whatever a man’s mid-life crisis entails, men seem to be allowed to have one. Men are, to some extent, even expected to have a mid-life crisis of some sort. Men themselves feel entitled to one. People will even comment about it matter-of-factly when it’s a man. They’ll say things like, “He bought that sports car because he is having a mid-life crisis” or “He dyed his gray hair black because he’s going through a mid-life crisis.” Men are allowed to have a mid-life crises. They are allowed when they get divorced to have a mid-life crisis and date a 22 year-old whose vocabulary primarily consists of the words “awesome” and “dude.” (No offense to any of you 22 year-old women out there). My question is this: What about the women? Why can’t they have a mid-life crisis? Women who do have a mid-life crisis are usually called …

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It’s all about YOU

by December 20, 2009

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Hey guys, hope all is well! Something I just wanted to chat about real quick is your being. Its something I have been real interested in because its about who you are. If you always choose to be 2 nd best, then that’s what you’ll be. See guys there is a lot of power we possess within ourselves. Deep down we understand this but for some reason choose to deny it and generally fear can be the catalyst for this. Whether it is fear of failing, fear of rejection or even fear of success! As humans we sometimes like to look for something to place the blame on for example “women are all ‘b**ches because one approach didn’t go well”. Trust me when I say, I am not trying to take away any important relevance to experiences that we go through in life because some experiences can be really tough and crappy at times. Though as individuals we have to take the responsibility on how we are going to react to that given experience. A good way for example maybe during a real tough and crappy time I like to try and find that nugget of gold in that given experience because for me that keeps me grounded and positive. Again it may sound easy but if you actually try doing it, it is another story but is not unattainable. You know I feel that the lives that we live we have a massive say in how it goes and I choose to believe certain things happen for reasons, reasons that we may never discover for long periods of time but it is not so much the reason that is important in that given moment but how we choose to…

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